Nowadays technology has brought

technology... Nowadays technology has brought a lot of changes to our life, especially in education and communication. In communication, the major changes happen in the way we communicate with other people. We do not need to meet them in person or face to face to say what is in our mind. We simply can phone them or do video chat using Internet connection. In the past, we spent a long time to travel to a distant place,but now we just need hours or even minutes to go there using the latest technology in a form of transportation means. In education, the changes have brought advantages to students and teachers. For instance, students can do their homework or assignment faster because using Internet. The teachers also get some advantages from it. They can combine their teaching skill with it and produce some interesting materials to teach like colorful slides to deliver the lesson and animation to show how things happen. In conclusion, technology itself has given us advantages to improve our life’s quality. http://nayemorg.blogspot.com

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Why Our World is So Riveting

During a competitive basketball game, what keeps us glued to the television screen? Why are we struck by the beautiful mountain view from a cabin?

We may feel that our answers to these questions are highly personal, but science increasingly shows that the things we find compelling share many similarities at their core. Those riveting qualities include such things as incongruity, patterns and people.

In his new book Riveted, Jim Davies reveals the evolutionary underpinnings that drive us to be attracted to, or repelled by, things in our world.

Here, seven quirks of our brains that explain what rivets us, and why.

Helping Ravens and Hurting Hawks

You’ve already picked a side in the bird wars, whether or not you know it. As humans carve up formerly empty expanses of the western United States with our roads, electrical towers, and power lines, we’re inadvertently giving a boost to ravens. Meanwhile, the birds of prey that once ruled the land are being left in the dust.

“The ecology of the sagebrush steppe is changing,” says Idaho State University biologist David Delehanty. He means a type of dry, scrubby grassland that’s found in the western part of the country. Raptors used to be the dominant predators here—specifically the buteos, a genus that includes certain hawks and buzzards (and is pronounced “beauty-ohs,” like a very lovely breakfast cereal). These birds have traditionally lorded over the big expanses of arid land.

But in recent decades, raptors have become rarer. Taking their place are common ravens. These resourceful birds are generalists, not strict predators like the buteos—they’re just as happy gnawing roadkill or garbage as they are swooping down on a live rodent. And now they’re the most common predatory birds in the region.

To learn what’s behind this change in bird demographics, Delehanty and colleagues at the U.S. Geological Survey set out to to see where birds are nesting. Researchers scoured the area surrounding the Idaho National Laboratory—more than 259,800 hectares, or about a thousand square miles, of desert—for nests. From 2007 to 2009, they systematically searched cliffs, rock faces, buttes, caves, live trees, dead trees, and shrubs for raven and buteo nests. They also checked artificial structures: billboards, power lines, cell towers, cooling towers, silos, and so on.

Over the three years of the study, the researchers found 212 nests belonging to Swainson’s hawks, red-tailed hawks, ferruginous hawks, or ravens. They looked for nesting patterns among each species: Did some birds prefer land near farms? Areas with more grassland?

The best predictor of what nests they found was the presence of a human-built structure. It turns out that not only do ravens tolerate our intrusions, but they prefer them. Nearly three-quarters of raven nests were on artificial structures.

“Ravens are an intelligent, adaptable, and fascinating bird,” Delehanty says, and they’re “taking advantage of and benefitting from human landscape alterations.” As a result, they’ve commandeered the West. Raven nests were 4 to 9 times as dense in the study site as any of the hawk species’ nests.

Among the buteos, red-tailed hawks seem to be the most tolerant of having humans nearby. They like to build their nests with the highest possible vantage point, and sometimes choose electrical towers instead of trees or cliff faces. Ferruginous hawks are the least tolerant of humans, preferring remote, undisturbed stretches of sagebrush (which are becoming harder to find).

Buteos like to keep a good distance from each other, but as human activity cuts their land into fragments, this gets more difficult. Ravens, which seem not to mind being closer together, can squeeze in anyplace. If there isn’t enough live prey to go around, they’ll scavenge or find other sources of food. And ravens have one more advantage over the buteos, Delehanty says: they’re “adept nest predators” that will seek out the nests of other birds and eat their eggs. The more ravens there are, the harder it is for other birds of prey to survive.

These findings may serve as a warning to hawk conservationists. “At one time, it was argued that power lines and towers would benefit hawks,” Delehanty says, by giving them new nesting spots. But it now seems the opposite is true. Our structures are helping ravens, and indirectly hurting hawks by fragmenting the land and allowing ravens to push them out. If humans want to help hawks stick around, we’ll first have to acknowledge that we’re not on their side.

Medical Technology With Legos_Hacking

Maverick MIT inventor Jose Gomez-Marquez has seen the future of medical tech in the developing world: It’s made of Lego bricks, cheap cell phonesand dollar-store finds.

In a venerable brick building on the Massachusetts Institute of Technology campus, Gomez-Marquez is busy inventing unconventional, affordable medical technologies and replicating the functionality of hundred-thousand-dollar laboratory robotics with Lego Mindstorms kits and DIY Arduino circuits.

He calls it “supply chain arbitrage” — modifying existing materials to improve people’s lives today. He strongly believes that something as simple as modifying a pill bottle — and helping locals to do so for thecaremselves — is a powerful way to change the ground rules of health 

(Read our full feature story about Gomez-Marquezhere.) 

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A Rainy Day

A rainy day is a day when it rains ceaselessly all day long during the rainy season. It is called a drizzling day. The sky is overcast with patches of black clouds and the sun remains hidden behind them. The weather is foul. The sun is not seen. Sometimes, gusty wind blows with rain. Rivers, canals and tanks swell up. Roads and paths get muddy and slippery. Water stands here and there. Normal life is disrupted due to heavy rain. One does not generally come out without compulsion. The common people cannot attend their respective places in time. If anybody wants to go outside, he has to take an umbrella with him. The poor and the day laborers do not like a rainy day. They cannot go out to earn their living. Their suffering know no bounds. They go on starving. A rainy day is most welcomed to the students, as they have no classes in the school. A rainy day brings joyous mood to the young boys of the same age and they are seen to bathe in rainwater with merriment. People pass the boy in listening to music, watching videocassettes, reading novels. Those who have imaginary bent of mind enjoy the beauty of nature being drenched in rains. The cloudy sky lets loose their emotions. A rainy day has good effect on the soil. It helps plants grow, flowers bloom and nature looks fresh and beautiful. However, a rainy day is welcomed after the baking heat of summer.

Your first day at school


The day a student goes to school for the first time is called first day at school. My first day at school is a memorable day for me. It is a red-letter day for me. When my parents declared the news of my schooling, I became very much excited and started leaping and dancing in great joy. Then the expected day came. I went to every member of our family and received blessings from all. I was in a very happy and cheerful mood. I went to school for the first time when I was only seven years old. My father took me to school for the first time. I was little nervous at the beginning. I remember it well. I was then a little boy. I was very interested in going to school with riding rickshaw accompanied by my father. First I met with Headmaster at school. My heart beat fast. But this smiling face and gentle words put me at ease.  He asked me my name. I answered politely. The headmaster was very pleased with my response. When I was sent to class. My class teacher took me to the classroom and introduced to my classmates. I met with the teachers and students who behaved well with me. My classmates were very much friendly and soon they accepted me as one of their bosom friend. They received me very cordially and made friendship with me, within a short time. The school broke up at 2 pm. My father again came and took me home. I left the school with a cheerful mind. That day was very remarkable in my life.
Traffic Jam
Traffic jam is a situation in where vehicles cannot move freely and traffic comes to a standstill. It occurs almost all the district towns where a lot of vehicles play everyday. Especially it occurs near bus stand, railway crossing, turn of a road, at the junction of various roads or near a market. It occurs mainly in the morning and afternoon on working days when everyday body tries to attend office in short time or returns home as early as possible. The indiscriminate playing of vehicles like rickshaws, bus, scroters etc and haphazard parking of vehicles and small shops in the footpaths are the main reason of traffic jam. Traffic jam causes untold sufferings to people. Students cannot reach schools in time. It kills our time and lessons our working hours. It causes great sufferings to the ambulance carrying dying patients and the fire brigade vehicles. The increasing of traffic jam hampers our economy. So well spacious roads should be constructed. One-way movement of vehicles should be introduced. The driver should be trained in order to cope with the other developed nations. After doing all these things we can hope to have a good traffic system for our easy and comfortable movement.



Environment Pollution
All the ingredients that we have around us are jointly known as environment. Environment pollution implies the contamination of the surroundings. Any abnormal change of environment in chemical, physical and biological characteristics in environment is called environment pollution. Environment is the whole system of our existence. Our environment is becoming polluted everyday for several reasons. Human beings mainly pollute environment. Massive industrialization is an important cause of environment. Smoke from motor vehicles also pollutes environment. Serious environment pollution occurs in big cities because buses, trucks and cars play in the streets everyday and emit smoke. Mills and factories also pollute water. They throw their waste products into rivers and canals. By burning wood and melting pitch for road construction people make more smoke and pollute air. We use pesticide in our crop fields. It also pollutes our environment. Indiscriminate cutting of trees has also turned unbalanced environment. The ecological balance is being lost as a result of environment pollution. If we all desire to live a healthy and tranquillized life, we should make our environment clean and free from pollution. We should be all whole-heartedly in keeping our environment fit for habitation.   

Internet
Internet is a computerized network of information. It is the greatest invention in the communication system. It is the worldwide network of computer. Its uses and functions are smooth, easy and rapid. A students who knows just the keys of computer, can communicate anywhere he wishes. Internet communication is now the latest communication in the world. A computer and a telephone connection are required to get an Internet connection. There are two types of Internet such as Dial up and Broad Band. Internet has great usefulness. To get appropriate information a person has to communicate in the appropriate address. One can also go to a search engine like Yahoo, Goggle for finding particular page or a piece of information. A search engine is a system through which you can search for information on Web pages containing that information. By using Internet students can go through several books from the libraries without going there. They can seek information regarding admission to different foreign universities. But it is a matter to sorrow that many people of Bangladesh do not have still access to Internet because it is still costly and not easily available.


My last day at school
Every student has to study in different institutions in different spheres of life. Accordingly I left my school for higher studies. Before leaving school, I want to recall some events concerning my school. My last day at school is a memorable day to me. The students of our school bade us farewell on this day. The hall room was nicely decorated. Separate arrangement was made for us to sit. Our respected teachers took their seat on this dais. One of our teachers called out our names. We went up the dais one by one and the students gave us flowers and the headmaster gave the copy of “YOU WILL WIN” By Shib Kahake. With the gift we took our seats. Students delivered their short speech and begged forgiveness for our misdeed if any. Our teachers gave us valuable advice. The function being over, we were entertained with refreshment. Then left the school compound. Standing on the road I looked back home with a heavy heart.

The Postman
The man who delivers letters, parcels, and money orders from door to door is a postman. A postman is very punctual and dutiful. The works of a postman begins in the morning. He wears a different dress and it is a khaki uniform. The postman carries across his shoulders a bag containing letters, parcels and money orders and other postal articles. He is very useful to the people and his work is very important and responsible. He goes from one house to another to deliver letters money orders and other postal articles to the proper addresses. A postman can make us both happy and unhappy. When he brings letters of good news, we become happy. He renders and great service to the society. He is such a great friend to us that everybody we expect his nock on the door. He behaves amiably with all. The economic condition of a postman is very miserable. Though he works very hard he gets a very small salary. With it, he cannot maintain his family decently. So he leads a miserable life. No doubt he serves the society as well as the country greatly in the field of postal communication. He should be given good salary so that he can leads a better life and service us well.
A Home I live in
 A home is a place where a man lives with his near and dear ones. Everybody is closely related with all the things around it. My home is my heaven. Home is the place that I like the most. My home is a one storied building consisting of five rooms. It is situated under the shade of the trees. It stands in the midst of beauties of nature. The green trees also surround it. My home is not only airy but also well lighted. So, even in the midst of scorching heat it remains cools and comfortable. There is small flower garden in front of my home. I spend leisure hours there. My home faces the south. Open fresh gentle breeze is flowing through the open window of my home. After the toils of the day, I get exhausted and grow mad to get back home. My home is a sort of fascination to me. Staying away from home for few days I feel homesick. To me my home is really the sweetest place on the earth. I am proud of my sweet little home.

Tree plantation
Tree plantation means the process of planting trees .Now a days it has become a social movement in our country. Trees are a great boon to us. They are related with our life and well-being. The boons and benefits derived from them are too many to count. Trees provide us shelter, food, fruits, firewood, timber and oxygen. We get vitamins from fruits. They prevent soil erosion, air pollution and floods. They also effectively prevent the spread of the desert and landslides. They are essential to maintain ecological balance and preservation of fauna. We all should plant and grow more and more trees and protect them. Social forestry should be taken on a large scale and trees should be grown all around where in space. Trees add to the beauty and quality of our life and living. We have to plant trees in every bare space of land, the sea beaches, the low –lying areas, the road sides should be brought under deforestation. We cannot think our existence without trees. People should grow more and more trees to improve our adverse situation. The result of tree plantation will be positive for human being in every sphere of life.

A Teacher
A man or woman, who teaches the students in any educational institutions, is called a teacher.A teacher is a person who teaches his or her students and discovers their hidden treasures. He is a window opener for his students. A teacher opens up a new vast knowledge for them. A good teacher is a friend, philosopher and a guide to the students. He does everything to the students. He nurses the young minds as carefully as the gardener handles the saplings. The importance of his service knows no bounds .He teaches his students the methods of living because a good teacher knows the modern method of teaching.

A day laborer
A day labourer is a person who works all day long for earning his living. He is a common figure in our society. He and his family depend on his daily income. A day labourer gets up early in the morning and goes out for work depending only on his manual labour. He does different types of jobs such as carrying bricks, wood, stones, mud and digging pons constructing of roads, buildings etc. He builds our buildings, industries, bridges and thus he serves our country. Though he works all day long, his income condition is miserable. If he cannot earn a day his family is to starve. He feels happy when he earns the needful amount but becomes sad when he finds no work to do or gets physically ill.

                                      
A Farmer/The life of a farmer

A farmer is he whose profession is agriculture. He is most common figure in our country. Basically he is the main force of economy. He is called the father of food production. But they are devaluated. Without his role our country cannot go ahead. A farmer gets up early in the morning and then goes to the field to work. He works in the field all day long and procedures different kinds of crops. When a farmer produces good harvest , he enjoys a happy life with his family. His face beams with joy. But when he cannot produce good harvest, he enjoys a miserable life.

A Birthday Party
The day, in which a man is born, is celebrated as birthday to make it memorable. In our country rich people are seen to celebrate this day festively .In this day, the drawing room is beautifully decorated. Friends, relatives, well wishers are invited on this occasion. A special cake is ordered for celebrating this day. Besides, different kinds of delicious dishes are prepared. At the appointed time the invited guests begin to come and are welcomed by the person for which the day is being celebrated. At the appointed time the time the person concerned merrily cuts the cake. A round of applause follows. Plates full of delicious food items are then handed round. Everybody falls to with a good deal of zest. The eating is accompanied by a lot of taking and giggling. Camera is clicked on. After the meal, jokes may be made. Then the presents given by the invited guests may be unpacked one by one. And the person concerned expresses his or her gratitude to the guests. And the party may be rounded off with a chorus “ Happy birthday to you”.

Mobile Phone
Mobile phone is an important medium of communication and correspondence, which helps intercommunication with the people in the shortest possible time. The use of mobile phone is more convenient than telephone call. The man who sends the message will have to pay the bill but the receiver can respond to the message without any payment.specilly businessmen and the serviceman are much benefited through the use of mobile phone. It is useful for the doctor, businessman and high officials. But it is also useful for the people who is shopping and supplying in valuable information in his house. Sometimes, the criminals are using this phone to maintain their society. By using the Mobile phone, the terrorists and criminals carry out their evil designs and commit crimes with much difficulty. In spite of this there is no better alternative to mobile phone .To make the latest civilization for communication and correspondence

Dowry system
Dowry means property or money brought by a bride to her husband when they get married .Now a days the system of giving and taking dowry in marriage is more prevalent in Bangladesh. In Bangladesh this is seen to be major problem. In the Bangladeshi society this system is treated as a serious problem. Wife is inhumanly tortured and killed by her husband for dowry. Most of the parents are poor. They cannot keep up their word they give before marrying off their daughters. This leads to chaos and hellish unhappiness. However, the first thing to be done to stop this malpractice is to grow awareness among all. Movement against dowry system should declare right now. We cannot get ride of this social vice by taking social reformative works urgently.

Arsenic pollution
Arsenic pollution means arsenic contaminated water.  Of late arsenic pollution has become one of the most health hazards in Bangladesh. By drinking arsenic water ,people get the disease. Arsenic is a fatal poison. It has been deposited in that layer of the soil from here our tube-wells pump out water. As a result in most areas of Bangladesh tube-well water in contaminated with arsenic. Arsenic pollution has made the scarcity of drinking water acute though our country is water-rich. The irony of fate is that “water, water everywhere nor a drop to drink.” It is a hard nut to crack. Our ignorant people are drinking arsenic polluted water from tube wells and are human being affected by arsenicosis. Those who do not eat fish and vegetables are easily affected. Arsenic is such a poison that is damages all the vital organs ore after another resulting in the subsequent death o the sufferer. Arsenicosis has no remedy nor has it any antidote. Hence arsenic pollution demands utmost attention. An affected person should drink arsenic free water and take vitamins A,C,E to come round. Arsenic polluted water has been ter5med as the killing water. There has been world wide awareness of this problem. Aids from different corners are reaching. Deep tube wells rainwater, reservoirs, surface water treatment, etc may be the pragmatic measures to minimize the problem to a great extent.
A  Garment Worker
Persons working in a garments factory are garments workers. An ordinary garments worker in our country leads very laborious life. His/her day starts very early in the morning and ends at about 10 p.m. She/he starts for working place at about 7 am. She/he is to pass a long way everyday to reach the factory. She/he goes to the factory on foot. Sometimes on the way to the destination, she /he is teased with slang words from various corners. He/she is to tolerate all bad comments. In the factory, he/she works in a congested room. There is no seat to sit upon. She eats the poor lunch with her colleagues in the factory. Almost everyday he/she takes his/her lunch from home. She is given a break for half an hour. Within this time she cannot take lunch from her house. She works in the factory for long hours till deep at night. She likes working in a factory rather than in a household. She is used to do over working. Though he/she gets very poor salary, she/he expends it very wisely. She/he leads very simple life. In a word, a major portion of national income depends upon his/her hard work. So he/she should have better opportunities in the factory and society to led better life.





A Street Hawker

A man who sells various things by moving from street to street is a street hawker. He is a self-employed person. He is the familiar figure in the cities and towns. He raises a strange outcry to draw the attention of his customers .He wears a peculiar dress of different colours. He tries to attract the attention of the customers by using different tricks. He carries his goods either in bundles or in a basket. Sometimes he walks about with his goods on a wheeled platform. His customers are usually children and women. As they credulous they agree to pay whatever price he demands. So He does not like elderly men. He usually sells toys. Cosmetics, ready-made garments, daily necessaries, utensils and balloons of various colors and shapes. Children gather round him and woman hail him. He is a clever man. He goes out his moving shop when the elderly people are out on duty or business. He demands higher price for his things but he sells his things at a cheaper rate. However he is an expected person for some people. Although he works hard, his life is miserable. All most all the time he leads a subhuman life.
A Fisherman
The man who catches fish to live is a fisherman. Generally a fisherman lives in a village near a river or a sea. He is hard working and painstaking. He uses nets and boats in fishing. Some fishermen have nets but no boats. Some who have boats and nets employ the boat less ones and work in a group. A fisherman is always at work. While at home he repairs his boats or nets and he paints his boats or dyes his nets. He catches fish in the seas, rivers, and beels. His women-folk make new nets; his children dry fishes in the sun and sell them in the market. He works hard all day and night. The life of a fisherman is very risky and challenging because there may have storms and cyclones at any time. Some fishermen go to fish at night; some go to fish in the deep water or in the sea from home for many days. When he catches a lot of fish,his joy knows no bounds. After all a fisherman does much good to us by supplying fishes.In spite of being hard working he can hardly make both ends meet. Government should take some steps for the development of minimum standard of their livelihood.

Baishakhi Mela

A Mela is  an occasional event. Baishakhi Mela is a fair held every year in the month of Baishakh amid great festivity and merriment. Baishakhi Mela is the reflection of the true picture of  Bangladesh. It is a part and parcel of Bengalee culture. Baishakhi Mela is such a celebration when the people of our country become together to welcome their culture without being drowned in the illusion of western culture. Bangladeshi having the taste of rich culture and tradition. The largest Baisahaki Mela of the country  is held at Ramana Batamul. People of all ages-poor and rich, children and adults, men and women, illiterate and educated of our country  participate in this Mela putting on traditional dresses and enjoy the best of it according to their area of interest. Peoples are gathered with carrying festoons, play cards Banners etc. It upraises the traditions and national heritage with assemblage of delicate woven clothes, potters, top, handicrafts, needle work and so on. One of the most attractive events is a lottery. It attracts the people of all ages. Huge numbers of people are seen in the lottery stalls. Bangladeshi foods are sold in small shopkeepers. Some shopkeepers sell artificial goods of our daily uses. Little boys and girls cry and make noise for their toys. Young, old and children visit the stall and buy different things with utmost enthusiasm. A cultural programmed is held in the Mela. A lot of singers sing Bengali traditional songs like Jari, Shari, Bhatiali,folk song.People also come to these functions with spontaneity and enthusiasm. In addition to these, people enjoy circus, merry go round and Jatra as special attractions. Such Melas go on all through the month and witness huge rush in the evening time and holidays.There fore, Baishakhi Mela is considered the most significant medium of expressing our sincerity to our culture, heritage and tradition and increase our fraternity.



THE INTERNATIONAL MOTHER LANGUAGE DAY

The international mother language day is a day, which is observed internally. It is related to the mother language of the world. As a result of the proposition of Bangladesh government, the day was recognized by UNESCO. From then the day came into existence. People generally pass the day by way of attending the seminar on the day. They paid a wreath in the Shaheed Minar . At that time everybody is barefooted.They go there with a procession. People who takes part in the procession are singing a chorus  “ Amar Bhiar Rokte Ranghano Ekushey February, Ami ki Bhulite pari”. The day has a great significance for us. Because on that day of 1952, our Golden sons laid down their valuable lives for the recognisation of our mother tongue. As a Bangalee, I am proud of the day. Because the day got recognition internationally and it is now observed all over the world.


A Moonlit Night
A moonlit night in which the full noon shines in its entire glory in the sky is called a moonlit night.In the autumn the sky remains cloudless and the moon looks like a big silver disc in the sky. The moon’s rays reflecting on seas, rivrs, ponds and hills create a music spell.The smooth rays of the moon please our eyes and mind.The natural beauty of a moonlit night can better be realized than described. People feel great joy. Children play and run about. Men and women go from one house to another. Women sit in the yard and gossip.Lower animals take the moonlit for day and start roaming about.The moonlit night reminds us the mystery of creation of Allah. We can evaluate the moonlit night as offering a charming sight to all living beings.

A School Library
A library is a storehouse of knowledge.  Library satisfies our eternal knowledge of the unknown and the unseen. A library plays an important role in the realm of knowledge. A library is a part and parcel of a school. No school is complete without library. Our school has a big library. It is housed in two separate two-storied building. The library has a good collection. There are many almirahs. The books are arranged in different shelves according to the subjects. The reading room and the office room of the librarian are separate. The librarian has some assistants. There is a big reading room. The reading room is well furnished. When we take the help of a catalogue, the assistants at once find the book and help us. We are issued library cards. We can borrow books after two weeks. In the reading room we can read as many as books as we like. Silence is must here. Nobody is allowed to make noise. I am proud of my school library.

A Tea Stall
A tea stall is a small shop where tea and other things are sold for the passers-by. It is a common place to all classes of people. It is usually found at the turn of the road, bus stands, railway stations, Bazer or even beside an office where the common people are available. It opens early in the morning and closes at late night. Biscuits, bread, banas, betal leaf and different kinds of handmade snacks are available there. A tea stall is furnished with some benches and tables. A boy is employed in a tea stall to serve the people. People who come to a tea stall usually do not leave it immediately after taking a cup of tea. People refresh themselves with a cup of tea in a tea stall. A tea stall is also a place where social disputes are settled. They mainly talk about politics and current affairs. This is why it is called a Mini Sangsad. Intact, tea stall is now –a-days an important place of social gathering and at the same time a place of charm for the common people. So a tea stall occupies an important place in our day-to-day life.


A Village Doctor
A person who treats the poor villagers is a village doctor. He is a familiar and prominent figure in the village. A village doctor gives treatment to the village patients  He has a great demand in the village. He is generally a quack. He does not know much about medicine. He works with a qualified doctor for a few years and receives training under him. Then he sets up a dispensary in his own village. He opens his dispensary early in the morning. He examines the patients in his own dispensary and supplies them with medicine. He stands by the villagers in times of danger. He goes out on a visit on private calls. He is an important man in the village. He has got a high position in the rural society as he pays the villagers a helpful service at any time. He is locally respected much. He treats his patients with a nominal fee from the patients. He does not mind if any one does not pay him .He is somewhat responsible for the health condition of the villagers. Therefore, he should be trained more practically by the government for the better treatment of the villagers.

Dengue fever
Dengue fever is a kind of fatal disease caused by the biting of Aedes mosquitoes. It was first detected in Bangladesh in 1966. It is a virus-infested disease. There are four stereotypes of dengue virus, such as DEN-1, DEN-2, DEN-3, DEN-4.DEN-2 and DEN-3 are more serious. Dengue is one of the prime re-emerging diseases of Bangladesh. Aedes mosquitoes carry the virus of dengue fever. It breeds in small pots, jars, dumps and discarded plastic containers and tyros. There are two types of dengue fever. There are classical dengue fever and dengue hemorrhagic fever. Dengue Hemorrhagic fever is fatal and it causes death with bleeding. Dengue virus is originated from Africa. Now it is epidemic in most tropical countries of Asia like India, Myanmar, Srilanka, Bangladesh, Thailand, Malaysia, Singapore, Indonesia and Philippines. It transmits the virus when it sucks human blood. Its symptoms on patient become clear in four to six days. Aedes mosquitoes breeds stagnant but clear water of various pots. It lives on blood and aedes female mosquitoes cannot breed without blood. There is no antidote of dengue virus. With an apprehension of severe outbreak of dengue fever, people can be made aware of dengue. It will be easier to prevent the disease.

A visit to a palace of historical interest.

Man is not satisfied with what he has seen and known. A visit to a place of historical interest is really interesting and attractive. Dhaka is a place of historical interest. If the visit takes place on any place of historical importance, it becomes really an enjoyable one with educative value. During the last summer vacation I, along with some of my friends, decided to go to savar to see the National Memorial. Accordingly we fixed a date and started our journey from Gabtali to savar at 10 p.m. by bus. We reached savar, near National Memorial just after 45 minute. Actually the National Memorial at savar is the symbol of the nation’s  respect for the martyrs of the war of liberation. It contains the history of our independence. It is built with concrete, but made of blood. It stands 150 feet tall, but every marty it stands for stands so much taller. There is actually a series of 7 towers that rise by stages to a height of 150 feet. The foundation was laid on the first anniversary of the victory day. Reaching there we felt a great respect to the freedom fighters who sacrificed their valuable lives for us. We took some snaps taking the view of the memorial. However, we visited the place and the surrounding area for about an hour. The most moving sight of the complex is the several graves of the martyred freedom fighters just close to the tower. However, we left the place paying our glowing tribute to the freedom fighters. Through this visit we experienced a lot.

THE GREEN HOSUE EFFECT

Green house effect means gradual warming of the earth’s atmosphere. If the concentration of green house gases in the atmosphere continues to increase at the present rate then the green house effect rises in the earth. The global warming is caused by the accumulation of certain gases, the carbon di-oxide, CFC Methane and Nitric Acid around the world. The presence of these gases to a large degree is making the ozone layer of the earth’s atmosphere thinner day by day. At this, the ultra violet ray of the sun can easily penetrate the atmosphere of the earth. The increasing numbers of engine vehicles are increasing Carbon di oxide gas, which is making hole in the Ozone Layer. There will be a dramatic change in the climate and topography of the earth. This will reduce our ability to grow food and severely damage wild life, raise sea levels and thereby submerge the costal areas. There will be drought through out the world. Many creatures will be on the verge of extinction. Modern science is helping us to keep peace with congenial atmosphere. We must follow the guidelines to create better environment and save life on this beautiful planet.
EXAM STRATEGY

Exam strategy means examination skill. When examination approaches, students begin to plan because 50% chances of success rely on examination skill rather than subject knowledge. A student should check and double-check the examination schedule and he should also check what he is allowed or not allowed to take in with him the day before exam. Budgeting time and avoiding elaborate answers unnecessary are also part of our exam strategies after getting the questions paper, he should read it carefully. It is better to read through the whole question paper before starting to write.  It is again useful to spend time at least five minutes each question thinking about and planning answers. At first glance the questions may seem difficult, but it becomes gradually easier. A student should attempt all the questions to get good marks. It is also useful to underline the key words in the questions to help the examiner to know what he is required to do. He should also check back to make sure whether he is writing what he should write. He should always remember that his handwriting should be clear and legible. If one follows the exam tips on the exam day, he or she wins his or her chances of success.


A School Magazine
A school magazine is a kind of periodical publication, which contains the writings and contributions the students and the teachers in a school. Every school publishes a school magazine every year. At first, a committee is formed for publishing the magazine. Then the committee asks the learners and the teachers to send their writings. The editor then corrects the writings. They select the publishable writings. The school magazine is generally open to all teachers and famous person outside the school is allowed to write in it. It also contains messages from the headmaster, assistant headmaster and the chairman of the school managing committee. There are short stories, poems, essays, verses, jokes, riddles and other writings related to studies, sports and cultural activities of the school. It often contains album of photography. A school magazine can play a vital role in improving the young learner’s habit of reading and writing. It can develop the students’ interest in literature. It stimulates their imagination and develops their creative powers. It is a mirror of the school. It adds to the glory and honor of the school.

A STREET BEGGAR

The man who begs alms in roads and streets is called street beggar. A street beggar is a familiar figure in our country.  He is usually seen to beg standing by the roadside .He is a very poor man and lives on begging. Usually he is physically deformed and thus lives on others charity. He is seen always in rugged clothes and is dirty. He carries a bowl with him. Whenever a street beggar sees a passer-by, he begs alms by spreading the bowl towards the passer-by. If he gets any alms, he becomes happy and prays for the person who has given him alms. All the streets beggar have their own way of lie and mode of approaching for alms. He tries his best to draw the sympathy of the passers-by with his peculiar voice. He often recites from the holy Quran and tries to draw other’s attention. Sometimes he uses his tricks to earn more. He leads a very deplorable life. He lives from hands to mouth. He can not give good education to his children. He leads a life of sufferings and pains. He is born unsung, remain unsung and die unsung.We should mercy by giving alms to a street beggar who is unable to work and consequently fails to maintain himself or his family.


A School Library.
A library is a building or room where huge numbers of books of various kinds are kept for the readers who come to satisfy their thirst for knowledge. Newspapers etc are kept for people to read, study or borrow. We have a large and spacious library in our school. It is well furnished having a lot of tables and benches to study. In our school library the books in our library are organized into categories of classes and then arranged alphabetically within this class. Each category is assigned its own special number within that numbers and every book in the category is assigned its own special number within that number range. The textbooks and reference books the students can make note sitting in the peaceful and quite atmosphere of the library. They can also take the reference book in their home being the member of the library. I think our school, library helps us a lot to acquire knowledge vastly and to broaden our outlook. So it is our duty to go to the library regularly.

A Winter Morning
A winter morning is a time when it falls cold and gets biting cold. This morning is very beneficial to the protection and preservation of man’s health. The mists gather in drops upon the leaves of trees or the blades of grass. They look like pearls as they glitter in the rays of the morning sun. A winter morning is sometimes heinous to the poor, as they have nothing to wear for protecting biting cold. Winter morning is a curse for old and poor people and they are obedient to bask in the sun in this morning. A winter morning presents us different sights of including basking, getting sunlight to warm body and what not. Village children hardly have warm clothes. So they make fire with straw, sit around and enjoy the heat. Apart from this, a winter morning presents us sweet, juice of the date, fresh vegetables and fresh natural foods. People who have morning work get up early in the morning, as they are interested to enjoy morning best on the bed in the lap of warm cloths and wrapper. Really the diversity that we observe in the winter morning sometimes stirs us or sometimes elates us.
A Railway Station.
A railway station is place where trains stop for the passengers to get into and get off from the train. It is a busy place. It becomes very busy because of the arrival of trains. Here the passengers are found to stand in a queue to collect their tickets in front of the ticket counter. A big station is always crowded with passengers, hawkers, and posters. There are bookstalls, book-sellers and waiting rooms in such a stations. Vendors shout their trade cries. When a train reaches at the station, the passengers hurry to get off from the train. At the same time passengers waiting for the train want to get into the train. As a result, a collision of two groups of passengers takes place. The whistling sound of the departing train creates a situation of vacuum in the minds of the passengers. When the train leaves the station, it becomes deserted and buzzing sound of the passengers ends. A railway station is often a den for the anti-social elements. It is a suitable place for the beggars to carry on their trade. It is an unhygienic place too. The authority should look into it.


A Farmer/ The life of a farmer

A farmer is a man who leads his family by working hard in the agricultural farms or cultivating lands. Bangladesh is an agricultural country. So farmers are the backbone of the country. He is most common figure in our country. Basically he is the main force of economy. He is called the father of food production. But they are devaluated. Without his role our country cannot go ahead. The farmers live in the village. Some farmers have their own lands. But some others are landless. They cultivate the land of others. They have to work hard from morning till night even in sun and rain to earn their livelihood. He works in the field all day long and procedures different kinds of crops. The economic condition of a farmer is miserable. Although he works hard, he does not get enough crops to eat. He lives a very low-standard life. He lives in the thatched houses. When a farmer produces good harvest, he enjoys a happy life with his family .His face beams with joy. But when he cannot produce good harvest, he enjoys a miserable life He has to starve sometimes. He even cannot get minimum medical care. Due to his illiteracy, he suffers from various diseases. The joys of a farmer know no bound when he gets bumpers crops. To enlighten him with the modern ideas. Adult education programme for the illiterate farmers can be introduced in the Radio and television.


A Moonlit Night
A moonlit night in which the full noon shines in its entire glory in the sky is called a moonlit night. It is really a night of dream and enjoyment. In the autumn the sky remains cloudless and the moon looks like a big silver disc in the sky. The silvery light of the moon floods the earth and the sky. The moon’s rays reflecting on seas, rivers, ponds and hills create a music spell. When the moon pours her light on the waves of water, it sparkles like a diamond. The smooth rays of the moon please our eyes and mind. The natural beauty of a moonlit night can better be realized than described. People feel great joy. Children play and run about. Men and women go from one house to another. Women can make their babies sleep singing the songs of stars and moon. Lower animals take the moonlit for day and start roaming about. It seems that the whole nature has taken a new form and everywhere is bright, bright and bright. A moonlit night spreads a feeling of joy in all objects of nature. In addition, we forget our animosity with others. We make a congregation and chat in different subjects with others. The moonlit night reminds us the mystery of creation of Allah. We can evaluate the moonlit night as offering a charming sight to all living beings.


May day /A Mournful Day
May day refers to a sad incident that took place in the month of May in 1886 in the American city of Chicago. May day means first May of the year, which is recognized as the international workers who laid down their lives for the interest of the workers in Chicago in May 1886. The history is that during those days the working people were suffering from over work. From the beginning of the industrial Revolution people in factories have worked very long, shifts lasting up to fourteen or even more hours a day. They could not protest for fear of losing job. However, they protested against the injustice done to them. And on May 3,1886 police fired into a protestant crowed in Chicago. The street of Chicago were smeared with the warm blood of workers. Many people were injured and one died.  All the privilege workers enjoy to day such as a minimum wage, safety laws and eight-hours workday were the outcome of the sacrifices of the workers on May3,1886. These are the rights they have achieved by their struggle. This day reminds the working class people that the workers will continue to be exploited until they stand up and speak and speak out to gain much better working condition, better pay and standard of life. On this day the working classes of the world become united irrespective of castes, creeds and nationalities. This is the glory as well as sorrow. So black flags are flown atop the offices and black badges are worn by the workers to symbolize their heartfelt grief for their fellow workers. Thus May Day has been a symbol of unity for the workers all over the world.

NATURAL BEAUTY OF BANGLADESH

সূর্য আলো দেয়....মেঘও না...

চীনে বিক্রি হচ্ছে নারীর দুধ

চীনে বিক্রি হচ্ছে নারীর দুধ 

কটি মানবদেহে সুষম পুষ্টির ঘাটতি মেটাতে গৃহপালিত পশুর দুধের বিকল্প এমন কিইবা আছে? কিন্তু হায় ! গা ঘিন ঘিন করে উঠার মতো বার্তা হলো, পশুর নয় এবার চীনে বিক্রি হচ্ছে নারীর বুকের দুধ!

চীনাদের সম্পদশালী মানুষের কাছে বুকের দুধ নতুন বিলাসী পণ্য হিসেবে জনপ্রিয় হয়ে উঠছে। এমনকি তাদের চাহিদা মেটাতে এ ধরনের সেবা দেয়ার লক্ষ্যে সেখানে বেশকিছু প্রতিষ্ঠানও গড়ে উঠেছে।

হংকংয়ের সীমান্তবর্তী শেঝেন শহরে শিনশিনইউ নামের একটি প্রতিষ্ঠান বুকের দুধদানে সক্ষম নারীদের মাধ্যমে চীনের সম্পদশালী জনগণের চাহিদা পূরণ করছে। তারা মূলত নবজাতক শিশুদের জন্য এ ধরনের নারীদের জোগাড় করলেও বেশি অর্থের বিনিময়ে পূর্ণবয়স্ক অনেকেই অধিক পুষ্টিসমৃদ্ধ বুকের দুধ খেয়ে থাকেন।

সাউদার্ন মেট্রোপলিসের এক রিপোর্টে জানা যায়, পূর্ণবয়স্ক ব্যক্তিরা সরাসরি বুকের দুখ খেতে পারেন বা অস্বস্তিবোধ করলে ব্রেস্ট পাম্পের মাধ্যমে বুকের দুধ সংগ্রহ করে পরেও সেটা খেতে পারেন।

রিপোর্টে বলা হয়েছে, পূর্ণবয়স্কদের বুকের দুধ দিতে সক্ষম নারীরা মাসে ২৬০০ ডলার পর্যন্ত আয় করতে পারেন। শিশুদের বুকের দুধ দেয়ার চেয়ে এ আয়ের পরিমাণ চারগুণ বেশি। তবে স্বাস্থ্য ভালো এবং রূপসী নারীরা এর চেয়েও অনেক বেশি আয় করতে পারেন।

প্রচলিতভাবে চীনের জনগণের ভেতর এক ধরনের বিশ্বাস রয়েছে, মানুষের বুকের দুধ খুব সহজেই হজম হয়। অসুস্থদের জন্য এটি অত্যন্ত একটি উপাদেয় পুষ্টিকর খাদ্য। তবে এ বিষয়টি নিয়ে এরইমধ্যে সমালোচনার ঝড় বয়ে যাচ্ছে চীনের বিভিন্ন সামাজিক সাইটগুলোতে।

সামাজিক সাইট ব্যবহারকারীরা একে অনৈতিক বলে সমালোচনা করছেন। ক্যায়াও বোয়িন নামের এক নিয়মিত ব্লগার বিভিন্ন সামাজিক মিডিয়া এবং নিজের ব্লগে লিখেছেন, চীনে নারীদের যে ভোগ্যপণ্য হিসেবে ব্যবহার করার রীতি প্রচলিত রয়েছে, এটা সেটারই একটা অসুস্থ প্রয়াস। এর মাধ্যমে সম্পদশালী চীনারা নারীদের সম্মানকে নৈতিকভাবে অবমাননা করছেন।

বুদ্ধি কমে লিপস্টিকে

বুদ্ধি কমে লিপস্টিকে!

ঠোঁট হবে আকর্ষণীয়, এটাই সবার কাম্য। সৌন্দর্যচর্চা প্রত্যেক নারীই প্রসাধনী উপর নির্ভর, তাই লিপস্টিক ছাড়া নারী যেন অপূর্ণ। ঘর থেকে বের হওয়ার পূর্বেই ঠোঁটে না একটু বুলালেই হয়।

নারীর কমল ঠোঁটের সাথে মিশে থাকা একটু লিপস্টিক যেমন তার শ্রী বৃদ্ধি করে তেমনী লিপস্টিক প্রেয়সীদের জন্য দুঃখের সংবাদ, লিপস্টিক ব্যবহারে বুদ্ধি কমে যেতে পারে। এ তথ্য জানিয়েছেন যুক্তরাষ্ট্রের গবেষকরা।

গবেষকরা বলছেন, লিপস্টিকে রয়েছে ক্ষতিকারক সীসা, যা বুদ্ধি, আচরণ ও শেখার ক্ষমতার খুব খারাপ প্রভাব ফেলতে পারে।

গবেষকরা গবেষণার জন্য তারা ২২টি ব্র্যান্ডের লিপস্টিক পরীক্ষা করেন। এর ১২টি ব্র্যান্ডের লিপস্টিকেই সীসার উপস্থিত রয়েছে। অবশ্য লিপস্টিকে খুব কম মাত্রার সীসা ব্যবহার করা হয়। তা সত্ত্বেও গবেষকরা বলছেন, সামান্য পরিমাণ সীসাও স্বাস্থ্যের ওপর ক্ষতিকর প্রভাব ফেলতে পারে

বোস্টনের সীসার প্রভাব প্রতিরোধ কর্মসূচির চিকিৎসক ডা. সিন পালফ্রের মতে, সামান্য পরিমাণ সীসা স্বাস্থ্যের উপর ব্যাপক খারাপ প্রভাব বিস্তার করতে পারে। এটি মানসিক স্থিতির উপরেও খারাপ প্রভাব ফেলে। বিশেষত, গর্ভবতী মহিলাদের গর্ভজাত সন্তানের ওপরও ক্ষতিকর প্রভাব ফেলতে পারে।

লিপস্টিকে ব্যবহৃত বিভিন্ন রঙের মধ্যেই সীসা থাকে। গবেষণায় ৫৫ শতাংশ লিপস্টিকে সীসার উপস্থিতি পাওয়া গেছে। ২০১০ সালে আমেরিকার ‘ফুড অ্যান্ড ড্রাগ অ্যাডমিনিস্ট্রেশন’-এর একটি গবেষণায় লিপস্টিকে অতিরিক্ত মাত্রায় সীসা পাওয়া গেছে। এবারে অনেক কম পরিমাণ সীসার ব্যবহার পরিলক্ষিত হয়েছে। এটাকে ভালো লক্ষণ বলেই মনে করছেন গবেষকরা। - See more at: http://www.mtnews24.com/details.php?id=20602&page=8#sthash.V9RQX2xh.dpuf

দেড় কোটি টাকা ব্যয় কুকুরের বিনোদনে

দেড় কোটি টাকা ব্যয় কুকুরের বিনোদনে!

মার্কিন যুক্তরাষ্ট্রের জনপ্রিয় সঙ্গীত শিল্পী মারিয়া ক্যারি তার পোষা সাত কুকুরের বিনোদনের জন্য খরচ ধরেছেন দেড় কোটি টাকা। কুকুরগুলোকে বিনোদনের ছুটি কাটানোর সুযোগ দিতে আলাদা বিমান ভাড়া করে যুক্তরাজ্যে আনাচ্ছেন তিনি। সেখানে ভালো হোটেলে রেখে তাদেরকে পছন্দের খাবারও খাওয়াবেন তিনি। ইন্দো-এশিয়ান নিউজ সার্ভিসের এক খবরে এ তথ্য জানানো হয়েছে।

৪৪ বছর বয়সী সংগীত তারকা মারিয়া ক্যারি তাঁর সাতটি কুকুরকে যুক্তরাজ্যের বিখ্যাত একটি কুকুরের হোটেলে রাখবেন। এ ছাড়াও কুকুরগুলোকে আলাদা বিমান করে আনতে এক কোটি ৩০ লাখ টাকা খরচ হচ্ছে তাঁর। যুক্তরাজ্যের হোটেলে রাখার পর কুকুরগুলোর জন্য বিশেষ বিনোদনের সুযোগও করে দিচ্ছেন ক্যারি।

বিখ্যাত শেফের হাতে নিজস্ব পছন্দের খাবার, ব্যক্তিগত থাকার জায়গা প্রভৃতি সুবিধাও পাচ্ছে ভাগ্যবানরা। একটি সূত্রের বরাতে কন্ট্যাক্টমিউজিক জানিয়েছে, ‘স্নান করানো, ঠিকমতো সাজানো, বেড়াতে নিয়ে যাওয়াসহ হোটেলে এদের নিজস্ব রুমে ঘুমানোর ব্যবস্থা থাকবে।  

এ ছাড়াও, মারিয়া ক্যারির পাঠানো খাবারের মেনু অনুযায়ী বিশেষ খাবার তৈরি করে খাওয়ানোর জন্য শেফও থাকবে। পাশাপাশি বিশেষ বিমানে ভ্রমণ তো থাকছেই।’ - See more at: http://www.mtnews24.com/details.php?id=20601&page=8#sthash.WjTaXHGc.dpuf

পুরুষরা নারী অপেক্ষা বেশি মিথ্যুক

পুরুষরা নারী অপেক্ষা বেশি মিথ্যুক!

একটি প্রবাদ বাক্য আছে যে নারীর মন স্বয়ং ঈশ্বরও বুঝে উঠতে পারে না। নারীর মনে এক আর মুখে আর এক। নারীদের নিয়ে জগতে এত নিন্দে প্রচলিত থাকলেও,  একজন নারীর তুলনায় একজন পুরুষ বেশি মিথ্যা কথা বলেন বলেই গবেষণায় উঠে এসেছে এক চাঞ্চল্যকর তথ্য।

একটি গবেষণায় দেখা গিয়েছে, নারীদের তুলনায় পুরুষরা বেশি সংখ্যায় মিথ্যা কথা বলে থাকে। একজন নারী সাধারণত কাউকে কষ্ট দিতে না চাওয়ার কারণে সত্যি কথা চেপে রাখেন। সেখানে একজন পুরুষ নিজের পয়সা বাঁচাতে বা কোন বাজি জিততে মিথ্যার আশ্রয় নিয়ে থাকেন। তবে, সবক্ষেত্রেই তা নয়।

গবেষকেরা জানিয়েছেন, একজন পুরুষ সপ্তাহে অন্তত চার বার মিথ্যা কথা বলার বা সত্যি লুকিয়ে রাখার চেষ্টা করেন। কিন্তু, নারীরা সেক্ষেত্রে সপ্তাহে মাত্র তিন বার এমনটা করে থাকেন। কোন সমস্যা থেকে বেরোবার জন্যেও পুরুষ মিথ্যায় আশ্রয় নেন। তারা কোন ঘটনাকে অনেক রং চড়িয়ে বলার চেষ্টা করেন।

প্রায় ২০০০জন ব্রিটিশ যুবকদের  ওপর একটি জরিপ চালান গবেষকেরা। এতে দেখা গিয়েছে, পুরুষেরা সবচেয়ে বেশি মিথ্যা নিজের মানসিক স্থিতি নিয়ে বলে থাকেন। শত সমস্যার মধ্যে থাকলেও, তারা ‘আমি ঠিক আছি’ বলে কথা এড়িয়ে যান।

পুরুষদের ক্ষেত্রে দ্বিতীয় মিথ্যে হলো, কোন উপহার পছন্দ না হলেও তারা সেটি পছন্দ করার ভান করেন। এছাড়াও, কোন জিনিসের দাম ও নিজের অসুস্থতা নিয়েও মিথ্যার আশ্রয় নেন পুরুষরা। - See more at: http://www.mtnews24.com/details.php?id=20588&page=8#sthash.J4qasm2m.dpuf

প্রেম ঠেকানোর ১০ দিক

প্রেম ঠেকানোর ১০ দিক........

কোন জিনিস তৈরি করা ঠিক যতটা কঠিন, সেটা ভেঙে ফেলা ঠিক ততটাই সহজ। প্রেম সম্পর্ক ভাঙা-গড়ার খেলায় আপনি কিভাবে সেটা ঠিক রাখবেন তা আপনাকেই বের করতে হবে।

আজকাল প্রমে পড়তে যত না সময় লাগে, তার অনেক কম সময় লাগে সেটা ভেঙে ফেলতে৷ কিন্তু সম্পর্ক কি এতটাই সহজ যে, চাইলেন ভেঙে ফেলা যাবে?

অনেক সময় তর্ক বা ঝগড়াতেও কিন্তু সম্পর্কের ভাঙনের কারণ হতে পারে৷ তাই আপনি যদি সম্পর্কটা ঠিক রাখতে চান, তবে কয়েকটি বিষয় আপনাকে মাথায় রাখতে হবে৷

সঙ্গীকে বদল করার চেষ্টা করবেন না
প্রথম যেদিন আপনার সঙ্গীকে দেখে আপনার ভালো লেগেছিল, তাকে সেইভাবেই থাকতে দিন৷ তাকে বদলানোর চেষ্টা করবেন না৷ অন্যের সঙ্গে তুলনা করে তাকে কখনও পালটে যেতে বলবেন না৷ এতে আপনার সঙ্গী নিজের প্রতি দুশ্চিন্তায় ভুগতে পারে৷ আবার অনেক সময় হয়তো এমনও হতে পারে, যাতে আপনার কথায় বিরক্ত হয়ে তিনি নিজেকে পাল্টে নিলেন, আর তখন তার জীবনে আর আপনার জন্য কোন জায়গাই থাকল না৷ কাউকে ভালোবাসলে তাকে তার মতো করেই ভালোবাসুন৷

সঙ্গীর সব কথা মন দিয়ে শুনুন
সঙ্গীর সব কথা যে আপনার ভালো লাগবে, তা একেবারেই নয়৷ কিন্তু তাই বলে সঙ্গীর কথা একেবারেই এড়িয়ে যাবেন তা কিন্তু একেবারেই ঠিক নয়৷ সঙ্গীর সব কথা মন দিয়ে শুনুন৷ এতে তার মনের যাবতীয় অনুভূতি এবং তিনি কী ধরনের মানুষ তা অনায়াসে বুঝতে পারবেন আপনি৷এর ফলে আপনাদের সম্পর্ক অনেক বেশি মজবুত হবে৷

দু’জনের মাঝে তৃতীয় ব্যক্তি
বেশির ভাগ ক্ষেত্রেই একটা সম্পর্ক কেবল মাত্র তৃতীয় কোন ব্যক্তির কারণেই ভেঙে যায়৷ তাই চেষ্টা করুন আপনাদের দু’জনের সমস্যা দু’জনের মধ্যেই রাখতে। আর দু’জনে মিলেই তার সমাধান করতে৷এতে সম্পর্কের গোপনীয়তা বজায় থাকে৷ সম্পর্কে তৃতীয় ব্যক্তি আসা মানেই আপনাদের সম্পর্কের বিভিন্ন বিষয় সম্পর্কে সে জেনে যাবে। এতে আপনাদের দু’জনের মধ্যে ভুল বোঝাবুঝি হতে পারে৷

দু’জনের পরিবারই সমান গুরুত্বপূর্ণ
নিজের পরিবারকে গুরুত্ব সবাই দেন৷ কিন্তু একইসঙ্গে সঙ্গীর পারিবারিক দিকটাকেও কিন্তু আপনাকে সমান গুরুত্ব দিতে হবে৷ সঙ্গীর পরিবারের সঙ্গে সেভাবে যুক্ত না হলেও খেয়াল রাখুন যাতে আপনার জন্য আপনার সঙ্গীর পারিবারিক জীবনে কোন সমস্যা না হয়৷

ঝগড়া পুষে রাখবেন না
সম্পর্কে প্রেম থাকলে সেখানে ঝগড়া থাকবেই৷ কিন্তু তাই বলে পায়ে পা দিয়ে ঝগড়া করেই যাবেন, তা হলে সম্পর্ক বেশিদিন টেকানো যায় না৷ একটু আধটু ঝগড়া সম্পর্কে আরও গাঢ় করে তোলে৷ কিন্তু সেই ঝগড়া অনবরত করতে থাকা বা রাগ পুষে রেখে কথা না বলা, দেখা না করা ইত্যাদির ফলে সম্পর্কে ভাঙন ধরতে বাধ্য৷

সঙ্গীকে তার মতো করে সময় কাটাতে দিন
আপনি তার সঙ্গে প্রেম করছেন বলে তার সমস্ত সময় শুধু আপনার জন্যই, এই ভাবনা একেবারেই ভুল৷ প্রেমের বাইরে আপনার যেমন একটা বন্ধুর জগত আছে তেমনই তারই বন্ধু রয়েছে সেটা আপনাকে বুঝতে হবে৷তাই একে অপরকে স্পেস দিন৷ নিজের নিজের বন্ধুর সঙ্গেও সময় কাটান৷ সব সময় একে অপরের সঙ্গে আটকে থাকলে সম্পর্কে অস্বস্তি বাড়তে পারে৷

সঙ্গীর মেয়ে বা ছেলে বন্ধু নিয়ে অযথা প্রশ্ন নয়
আপনার সঙ্গীর ছেলে বা মেয়ে বন্ধু থাকতেই পারে৷ তাই বলে প্রেমিকের মেয়ে বন্ধু রয়েছে বলে অযথা সন্দেহ বা প্রতিক্রিয়া একেবারেই দেখাবেন না৷ নিজের মনে বিশ্বাস রাখুন আপনার সঙ্গী কেবল আপনারই৷ অন্য কেউ তার বন্ধু হওয়া মানেই তিনি আপনার থেকে দূরে সরে যাবেন তা একেবারেই নয়৷

অতীত নিয়ে অযথা প্রশ্ন করবেন না
প্রত্যেক মানুষের জীবনেই অতীত থাকতে পারে৷ এমন হতে পারে আপনার আগে হয়ত আপনার সঙ্গীর জীবনে অন্য কেউ ছিল৷ কিন্তু তাই বলে সে নিয়ে তাকে অযথা প্রশ্ন করবেন না৷ এমনকি ঝগড়া হলেও প্রথম প্রেমের কথা টেনে আনবেন না৷ এতে আপনার সঙ্গী বিরক্তও যেমন হবেন, তেমনই মনে মনে সে আপনার প্রতি নিরাপত্তাহীনতায় ভুগবেন৷

সম্পর্কে স্পেস দিন
সবাই নিজের সঙ্গীকে জীবনে সবচেয়ে বেশি প্রাধান্য দেন৷ সেটা করা ভালো৷ কিন্তু তাই বলে সঙ্গী যদি অন্য কোন কাজে ব্যস্ত হয়ে পড়েন আর আপনাকে সময় দিতে না পারেন, তবে সে নিয়ে অযথা ঝগড়া করবেন না৷

অনুমতি না নিয়ে ব্যক্তিগত জিনিস ধরবেন না
সঙ্গী হয়ত আপনার থেকে কিছু লুকিয়ে রাখেন না, কিন্তু তাই বলে অনুমতি না নিয়ে তার ব্যক্তিগত কোনো জিনিস ধরবেন না৷ প্রত্যেকেরই নিজস্ব জগৎ আছে এবং গোপনীয়তাও রয়েছে৷ তাই অনুমতি নিয়ে তার জিনিসগুলো ধরুন। তাতে একে অপরের প্রতি সম্মান বাড়বে৷ - See more at: http://www.mtnews24.com/details.php?id=20523&page=8#sthash.KdUu3fkL.dpuf